tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post1682057523976324276..comments2024-01-27T01:06:49.320-08:00Comments on Jhen & Company: No Mom TalkJhen.Starkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12731079023004004203noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-48383690652772522922010-10-05T12:12:10.066-07:002010-10-05T12:12:10.066-07:00Wanna make a play date?!? I'd love to see you...Wanna make a play date?!? I'd love to see you and your Joss girl again!! Plus, we live within minutes of each other!<br />Oh, and P.S.- I can't wait to open my mailbox in the next few days :)!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07786667849869655103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-61463327113999834332010-10-05T00:31:39.441-07:002010-10-05T00:31:39.441-07:00wow, at this point i sound like a broken record af...wow, at this point i sound like a broken record after all the other commenters, but it's true... i am totally the same. in high school so many people thought i was a snob, but it was just me being shy & not liking small talk.<br /><br />but also, i'm not fake. i don't put on a happy face & pretend to be your friend if i'm not, which i think is a good quality, right? what you see is what you get, & i think that might offend some. i'm learning to be a little more approachable, though... haha.<br /><br />i love this no-mom-talk-monday stuff. i joined in this week :)Amy Nielsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13778616217193819377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-32256502456395511872010-10-04T20:31:44.914-07:002010-10-04T20:31:44.914-07:00Hey Jhen! Ive just recently started following your...Hey Jhen! Ive just recently started following your blog since the Love blogs which were amazing btw. I usually am a silent follower, and the reason for that is EXACTLY what you said in your blog. fear of rejection, fear of saying to much, just a fear of not being liked for who i am. i too, come on strong. you are not alone. wanting to have that one person that i could call at 3 am and they would answer. that movie, or coffee. i completely understand! while i am not the best at keeping up my blog, and while i dont live close, if ya need a chat.. im a really good listener! :)sarah.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16700477326037100596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-17178725767142620122010-10-04T19:48:11.613-07:002010-10-04T19:48:11.613-07:00I really think we would be the best of friends if ...I really think we would be the best of friends if we knew each other in person! <br /><br />I totally hear you! I am the same way (passive and passionate)!! It is frustrating at times... My husband is SO outgoing-- and I swear there isn't a person on this planet who doesn't instantly want to be his best friend. It is so hard for me to be that way. It takes me a lot longer to really get close to someone... And I communicate so much better writing, than talking-- and that poses a problem to some people.<br /><br /> I think people really misunderstand passive/passionate people... But I think once you get to know people like us- we make for a very close friend. : )Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00945117970604450825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-82786876060922086572010-10-04T15:21:39.311-07:002010-10-04T15:21:39.311-07:00If I lived near you, we would so be buddies!! Tea?...If I lived near you, we would so be buddies!! Tea? Shopping? Babies? Husbands? We soooo love all the same things!!!<br />One day, Jhen, I hope we can have tea and company!!!<br />Bless you friend and keep the blogs coming...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00873624914808062285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-28360072870424368692010-10-04T14:35:04.479-07:002010-10-04T14:35:04.479-07:00I'm pretty shy when it comes to meeting people...I'm pretty shy when it comes to meeting people in person, and often it's mistaken as snobbery. :( So I totally feel your pain!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04571329756506708419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-87826676756313780652010-10-04T12:21:26.121-07:002010-10-04T12:21:26.121-07:00I clicked on your link from the "No Mom Talk&...I clicked on your link from the "No Mom Talk" Monday link up and am so glad I did. I can identify 100% with what you are saying. Plus, I just happened to be married to a pastor, so it seems people are even more afraid of me for whatever reason, which leads to more isolation! I'm amazed at the wonderful women I'm "meeting" through blogging and realize that God is using them to do such amazing things through them. Thank you so much for your honesty (I'm adding your blog to my google reader)! Have a wonderful Monday...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-88568558286413524262010-10-04T11:59:10.904-07:002010-10-04T11:59:10.904-07:00I can totally relate to this. I back of so much to...I can totally relate to this. I back of so much too, because sometimes I come on strong. I am a good friend and so loyal, but it is just really hard to make great friends. I'm glad I'm not the only girl to feel this way. It can be so discouraging sometimes. I constantly pray that the Lord will bring people my way who are just as passionate and loyal as I am. I think you would be a wonderful friend! =)Amy @ AGirlCalledBelovedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01769636261059338472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-85475868075044514872010-10-04T11:33:17.332-07:002010-10-04T11:33:17.332-07:00I am the same way with firends. I am one to worry ...I am the same way with firends. I am one to worry what someone is doing before I call. What if they are busy or at work or doing something with their loved ones. I don't want to bother anyone so I tend not to call people. Not really a great qulity when trying to make or keep friendships. In the end it comes off as I don't care but really I care too much. Thanks for sharing it makes me feel better to know that I'm not the only one with an empty inbox :)Maurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03926897555513324016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-53941262727071711702010-10-04T09:38:51.421-07:002010-10-04T09:38:51.421-07:00oh yeah, and yes, I am looking at buying a new cam...oh yeah, and yes, I am looking at buying a new camera. not sure which one, but I need something better than what I have. I have the Nikon D70 and ....I guess I am looking for something a tad smaller and up to date. what do you have?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13375476020034466099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-30295399900732600632010-10-04T09:38:03.333-07:002010-10-04T09:38:03.333-07:00HHAHAHA, soft black!!! love it! post a pic! I w...HHAHAHA, soft black!!! love it! post a pic! I will post a pic of this red that I have. I haven't dyed my hair since my wedding....6 years ago. So, this was a risk. <br />Thanks for sharing your blog post today. I live in a town where everyone has lived since they were kids, so...the chances of making great friends is...near to impossible. I have 2 friends that make my days go by, but my dear friends are in China...soo, not around. :( I wish we all lived close by (you & Courtney K) and could go to dinner together. That would be fun!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13375476020034466099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-70166169155841580572010-10-04T08:38:38.549-07:002010-10-04T08:38:38.549-07:00You and I are so similar. I have been told that I ...You and I are so similar. I have been told that I was a 'snob' before too, but in actuality, I struggle with the same thing you do. I never know whether someone is just being nice or if they really want to be friends. So I don't really have any friends either. I'm DYING to have someone to go have dinner with some nights or go see movies with. At least now I know I'm not the only one who struggles with this. :-)Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05491630838964114979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-389023695026522683.post-90373660616926578962010-10-04T08:31:05.806-07:002010-10-04T08:31:05.806-07:00Oh Jhen!! I just don't see that at all! You ar...Oh Jhen!! I just don't see that at all! You are such a genuine sweetheart. If we lived closer together, I would invite you out for coffee and playdates every. single. day. No joke! I really felt that from the moment I "met" you, you were someone I immediately clicked with. You are so warm and caring. Although, I know that it's a lot harder to make friends in person than over the internet community. <br />Believe it or not, I used to be this way too (come across icy)... and I'm sure that I still am that way to a certain extent. All we can do is recognize it and try to change it! That's exactly what you're doing, and I hope that people can see what a beautiful person you are inside! {loves}Mandy@ a sorta fairytalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08748261732968499309noreply@blogger.com